Building Boundaries - Protecting your energy

Boundaries are essential for maintaining healthy relationships, protecting your time and energy, and honouring your own needs and preferences. In this session, we'll explore various reflections and strategies to help you establish and maintain boundaries in your personal and professional life.

  • Boundaries are guidelines, rules, or limits that you set for yourself and others to establish what is acceptable and what is not in your interactions and relationships. Boundaries can be physical, emotional, mental, or even digital, and they help define where you end and others begin. Building healthy boundaries involves understanding your own needs and limits, communicating them effectively, and enforcing them with consistency and respect.

  • Establishing boundaries can have numerous benefits, including:

    • Increased self-awareness and self-respect

    • Enhanced communication and conflict resolution skills

    • Improved relationships and mutual respect

    • Reduced stress and overwhelm

    • Greater overall wellbeing and fulfilment

  • Various approaches can help you build and maintain boundaries in your life. These may include:

    • Identifying Your Needs: Reflecting on your own needs, values, and limits to determine where boundaries are needed.

    • Communicating Effectively: Learning to assertively communicate your boundaries with clarity, kindness, and respect.

    • Setting Limits: Establishing clear boundaries around your time, energy, emotions, and personal space.

    • Enforcing Boundaries: Following through on your boundaries with consistency and firmness, even in the face of resistance or pushback.

    • Practicing Self-Care: Prioritising activities that replenish your energy and nurture your wellbeing, especially when boundaries are challenged or violated.